Dale Carnegie Concepts - How To Get Girls or Guys To Love You

Published: 14th January 2011
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Do you want people love to be around you? Sure you do, who doesn't want that? Dale Carnegie wrote books on making people like you. Here I will give you his six main hints and tell you how you can apply them in today's world. If you can make people like you, you will have a tool that will enable you to get anything you want in this world: a gorgeous girlfriend, a great job, etc.

Hint number one...become genuinely interested in other people. If you show a person a sincere interest in them, that is the quickest way to get people to like you. Go out of your way to show concern and care for them.

Hint number two...smile. This may seem obvious, but this is a major obstacle for some of us. Do you know that studies have been done of people on dating websites? The pictures of people smiling get 10 times the response of the ones where the people aren't smiling. So do you want better results? Smile more often.

Hint number three...a person's name is the sweetest sound they will ever hear. Use a person's name when you are talking to them. It makes a big difference in how you are perceived. It makes them feel important and special.


Hint number four...listen, and encourage others to talk about themselves. We so often want to have all the right things to say. Many times if we would just encourage others to speak things would go so much better for us.

Hint number five...remember your audience when you talk. Speak in terms of things that interest the person you are communicating with and you will see a huge difference in the way they respond. Stop trying to be such a smarty pants, no one cares that you are a genious. Mirror the way the other person speaks and you will get their attention.

Hint number six...sincerely make the other person feel special. It is easy, look them in the eye, appreciate what they are saying, and most importantly smile. When you make the other person feel special you have given a gift to yourself as well.

dale was an expert in making people love to be aroound him. If you follow his techniques people will like you as well. Generally we don't make decisions about who we like based on logic, rather we do it based on emotion. That is where these techniques are based.



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